Brains Feat Tenor Fly – Positive People

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Books, videos, online resources etc. are all amazing, but at the same time NOTHING beats IN-PERSON connections. The most growth I’ve ever had has always been from face to face interactions and relationships. I critically emphasize you do your very best to cultivate IN-PERSON REAL LIFE relationships with awesome the best you can!

►Biggest lesson from this vid: “The right people just naturally come into your life when you take action”

Also, “Keep working on the “inner”, and the “outer” reality will eventually reflect it.”

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►Key points:
-Focus on moving towards your dreams.
-Try to make friends, but your main focus should be on MOVING FORWARD. Focus on making yourself an awesome, inspiring person to be around.
-Most “social skills” advice will make you give off a “needy” social vibe. When focused on making friends, you will always be giving off needy social vibes. Mainly focus on your dreams and moving forward, which will release those needy social vibes.
-“The right people come into your life when you take action.”
-Lots of times you will need to take action ALONE.
(For example, if you want a workout buddy. Perhaps it’ll take a couple months of going to the gym by yourself. But after taking action by yourself, then and only then will you meet a friend on the same path.)
-You NEED to put yourself out there socially, say “hi” to everyone, be kind to people, face your anxieties and do your best to be social, and make opportunities happen. Always push your comfort zone. Invite people to hangout / do things!
-Become a “YES MAN”, every social invite that you get (a party, an event, just playing video games with someone, ANYTHING — YOU MUST ACCEPT AND GO TO!)
-Always try to be a energy on everyone and have a positive impact on others, and watch that energy come back.
-Don’t be afraid to reach out to people you want to surround yourself with. (that buff guy at the gym who you’d like to workout with, the guy at the bar who you is good with the ladies, that girl in biology class who really seems to get the material, an inspiration, an older person you really respect, etc… ask them to hangout, etc.)

If you ask people to hangout / to do something, you’ll be surprised. Most people accept genuine invitations!
If you ask people for help, you’ll be surprised. Often they are flattered and would love to help you!

It’s okay to focus on logistics too. Go to places / events where you can meet people. Sometimes all it takes is making one friend, and then that friend will introduce you to his / her social circle and suddenly you have a group of friends!

BTW, I don’t have that many friends. I’m an introvert and enjoy just having a few close friends I connect very well with. No need to be mr. popular. Hope you liked this vid!

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How To Make Awesome Friends & Surround Yourself With Positive People!
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35 thoughts on “Brains Feat Tenor Fly – Positive People

  1. Who goes there?
    Tenor Fly and Brains
    you here what the man says

    mi nah want nah negative people around me
    only want positive people surround me
    mi seh no man curse seh who God bless
    that's why we have to progress

    come fi teach dem come fi warn dem

    a true friend is not someone you ramp with
    a someone you par with and a someone you rave
    with
    to be a true friend them afi well dedicated
    seh him a watch your back you ah watch his
    can tell im anything and he wont talk your
    business
    always help you out anytime in a crisis
    some say dem iah friend but dem a tell pure
    lie
    spread propaganda and pure some fight

    so many man so many man so many man try to be
    my friend
    if dem want fi get the fame mi ready fi
    suspend
    can't understand why real friends dem contend
    no way fa trick mi bwoy cau that is
    overextended
    why dem a lie why dem a lie why dem a lie
    about dem feelings
    cause inna this world a real friend is a
    healing
    few of dem straight others seems to be
    appealing
    even act that dem tears are streaming

    mi nah want nah negative people around me
    only want positive people surround me
    mi seh no man curse seh who God bless
    that's why we have to progress

    good vibes and positive attitude
    the good must defear all the rude

    from London to Hungary to Jerusalem
    the beat it is my paper and my voice it is my
    pen
    we send a councious message to a jah-jah
    children
    tell to alla dem seh Brains and Tenor Fly come
    again

    everybody know a person that is always
    negative
    try fi tell you what to do and try fi tell you
    how fi live
    everytime you try something dem a say you do
    it wrong
    sometimes you have to wonder what is the real
    plan
    the badmind ungrateful yes ah so them turn
    dem say dem iah friend but dem a act like one
    what? i guess a man is just a man

    mi know seh dem people ago change one day
    dem show dem true faces and dem stop ray ray
    dem nah go dish themselves mi seh no way
    just send all fake friends dem away
     

  2. Really amazing video! I'm stuck in a place where I don't want to hang with anyone because I want everyone to be like me, but inspiring video.. be kind to all !! take action!!

  3. Exactly what I needed. Really did not realize that I was such a negative nell till I started listening to how positive people think on a daily basis. Thanks
    .

  4. ►Key points:
    -Focus on moving towards your dreams.
    -Try to make friends, but your main focus should be on MOVING FORWARD. Focus on making yourself an awesome, inspiring person to be around.
    -Most "social skills" advice will make you give off a "needy" social vibe. When focused on making friends, you will always be giving off needy social vibes. Mainly focus on your dreams and moving forward, which will release those needy social vibes.
    -"The right people come into your life when you take action." <—- Biggest Takeaway From This Video
    -Lots of times you will need to take action ALONE.
    (For example, if you want a workout buddy. Perhaps it'll take a couple months of going to the gym by yourself. But after taking action by yourself, then and only then will you meet a friend on the same path.)
    -You NEED to put yourself out there socially, say "hi" to everyone, be kind to people, face your anxieties and do your best to be social, and make opportunities happen. Always push your comfort zone.
    -Become a "YES MAN", every social invite that you get (a party, an event, just playing video games with someone, ANYTHING – YOU MUST ACCEPT AND GO TO!)
    -Always try to be a positive energy on everyone and have a positive impact on others, and watch that energy come back.
    -Don't be afraid to reach out to people you want to surround yourself with. (that buff guy at the gym who you'd like to workout with, the guy at the bar who you is good with the ladies, that girl in biology class who really seems to get the material, an inspiration, an older person you really respect, etc… ask them to hangout, etc.)

    Also, "Keep working on the "inner", and the "outer" reality will eventually reflect it."

    If you ask people for help, you'll be surprised. Often they are flattered and would love to help you!

  5. Hey man I'd like to ask you a question. You have some really cool material and I'm 100% not being facetious when I say this.

    How do you know? You subscribe to a few of Alan Watt's beliefs such as a universal mind, and every living essence being God etc, and this really seems to contribute to your positive, holistic worldview. It clearly helps you live a happier life. The problem is that I can't see any reason to believe that apart from that it sounds cool. Are there any mainstream scientific opinions that can give us a reason to believe it's true? Again I'm just curious about your world view and your attitudes in general, you seem like a chill guy on a great path.

  6. Great video, this is really helping me get back into a more motivated mood. I was letting stress get to me for the first time in ages and regressing into bad old habits.

    I'm moving out of my parents home at 19 to go live with my girlfriend and two friends. Having these three people in my life is really going to improve my optimism and positiveness.

  7. Very encouraging! I've been thinking a lot lately about being social and making awesome friends because I think that is what is most important in life to be honest. Everything else starts from that. Humans evolved as a group. I grew up in Sweden and when I was a kid I was very social and outgoing. I lived at a place where it was very natural to be social and all the kids played outside all summer. But when I got older, my social interactions got a lot worse, probably because I and some friends liked the computer too much, which in retrospective was very bad for my social life. I went to university to study programming and to experience the social life there but it wasn't what I expected, my class was very asocial. I got some kind of illness there that the doctors didn't know what it was, that affected my social life a lot there as well, it was bad. The doctors thought it was stress, but it was something more, I think some kind of autoimmunity. However now I'm starting to positively realize how important the social life and good friends really are. My biggest problem is to meet new people, I think, or where to go. To take that action and make new friends. This is holding me back a lot. My current friends (which are my old friends that I don't have much in common with anymore) do not meet new people often either so I need to make this action alone. This is why it's difficult to take that action. Mostly taking action but also to know where to go, where people go and want to make new friends in a good natural way in your 20's. You know?

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